No everything is fair and not every divorce results in fair justice for all.
Fathers 4 Justice(F4J) was formed in the summer of 2001 by London-based creative director and political activist Matt O'Connor after he was denied access to his two boys in Britain's Secret Family Courts. This followed a difficult separation from his first wife.
Despite resolving the matter out of court in late 2001 and re-establishing a normal relationship with his children, O'Connor pledged to reform family law for the benefit of his two sons whom he feared would suffer the same experience when they became fathers.
On 17th December 2002, Fathers 4 Justice staged their first direct action demonstration when 200 Father Christmases stormed the lobby of the then Lord Chancellor's Department. For more see http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/about/
/divorce/money/financial-arrangements/index.html... see: The financial arrangements - Tax relief outside divorce proceedings (deed of separation)